"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being a promoter

mcpwn

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i got this promoting gig and basically i gotta promote around my campus, so i was thinking of getting my brochures and taping a tootsie roll to it and giving it to all the girls specially in my stats class clas of 200- 300 ppl with really cute girls, i read it somewhere on the site

good idea or DLV
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ready123

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do you think they're gonna suddenly wanna fvck you just because you gave them candy? what's the point?

I was a club promoter back in college and take it for what it is - a non-creepy way to open anyone, strike up a conversation and practice your game and/or social skills. that's all
 

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well theyre not gonna want to **** me cuz i gave them candy .. but would it help to get them to the club
 

ready123

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so you don't care about hooking up and you just trying to pack the place?

that's easy. just pass out fliers to a TON of girls and hype the place up. then pass them out to guys and talk some nonsense about how a ton of girls are gonna be there and they should get there before 11 if they wanna get in. it's just numbers and word of mouth
 

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Man, I wouldn't want to be the guy who goes around handing out tootsie rolls, lol. Why don't you just sit by the cute girls and talk to them instead? Be sure to talk plenty in class and don't hide behind a wall of anxiety(this let's them know you have a personality).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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War Against Betaism

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No, bad idea, this isn't a birthday party, most of my promoter friends don't even really go up to women to promote, they just hang the fliers on people's cars.
 
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