foxhound87
Don Juan
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Gentleman, I personally believe that being a nice isn't that bad. However before you grill me let me elaborate. There is different degrees of being a nice guy, and as long as you stick to your guns you will be just fine.
For starters you need to have confidence I cannot stress this enough, not the fake Kind (bravado) but the real kind that takes longer than a few months or years to develop. I beleive confidence is knowing what you want and not being afraid of going after it.
Secondly treating people with respect is a huge one, treat people the way you want to be treated. (I know it's tacy but its true) However if someone tries to bring you down, insult you, rip you off etc you must put your foot down and make a stand.
Thirdly, learn to control your alcohol intake. Every night I work I constantly see guys and girls who can't handle their alcohol. (Especially Americans:crackup: ) I'm not saying you should stay sober, just learn your limit otherwise no one will give you any respect. Every night I have to break up fights, kick drunk bastards out and clean up their mess.
The above examples are just a few of what makes a GOOD nice guy, I'm sure you guys have heard it all before though. What ever you do though, don't act
I hope guys liked my input I know it's nothing really new, but hey at the end of the day you just have to do what works for you..
Cheers...
For starters you need to have confidence I cannot stress this enough, not the fake Kind (bravado) but the real kind that takes longer than a few months or years to develop. I beleive confidence is knowing what you want and not being afraid of going after it.
Secondly treating people with respect is a huge one, treat people the way you want to be treated. (I know it's tacy but its true) However if someone tries to bring you down, insult you, rip you off etc you must put your foot down and make a stand.
Thirdly, learn to control your alcohol intake. Every night I work I constantly see guys and girls who can't handle their alcohol. (Especially Americans:crackup: ) I'm not saying you should stay sober, just learn your limit otherwise no one will give you any respect. Every night I have to break up fights, kick drunk bastards out and clean up their mess.
The above examples are just a few of what makes a GOOD nice guy, I'm sure you guys have heard it all before though. What ever you do though, don't act
Needy
Desperate
Shy
Weird
Please whatever you do don't say that your in love with a girl after seeing her three times, it makes me sick
Try not to give into her games, it's hard I know but hold your ground (She will respect you more)
I hope guys liked my input I know it's nothing really new, but hey at the end of the day you just have to do what works for you..
Cheers...