Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Being a male stuntman for cheer team? GOOD IDEA or BAD

Stingers

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Well this football season I tore my acl in my knee rendering me from playing next year (dad wont let me) so I've contemplated doing cheer for a year. Now cheer has some FINE ass women, but if I do cheer will they view me as just a teammate or as a potential F***. I want to hear your guys opinions on this and if this is a good alternative for meeting some FINE women
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PBreeze84

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I did.went to a cheer camp with 280 girls and 14 boys..think about it...
 

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Lots of scholarship opportunities to higher education. My friend did it for years while competing in powerlifting competitions on the side. He is now training to be a bomb squad technician ha..
 

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it's funny society will have you believe that " your gay" if you want to do cheer. but think about it.

a few dudes and about 300 girls. who really gay.

if they did it here i would do it!.. mainly cos i like girls in cheer outfits. then again. my high school fays was spent hustling lunch money
 

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Thanks for the replies guys most of my concerns have been answered except the whole purpose of this thread

Will the cheerleaders see me as just a teammate from there on or is it possible I could get something going with one of them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HolyG

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every male cheer leader i knew got laid. a lot
 
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