Well this football season I tore my acl in my knee rendering me from playing next year (dad wont let me) so I've contemplated doing cheer for a year. Now cheer has some FINE ass women, but if I do cheer will they view me as just a teammate or as a potential F***. I want to hear your guys opinions on this and if this is a good alternative for meeting some FINE women
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Being a male stuntman for cheer team? GOOD IDEA or BAD
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Lots of scholarship opportunities to higher education. My friend did it for years while competing in powerlifting competitions on the side. He is now training to be a bomb squad technician ha..
Packers2010
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it's funny society will have you believe that " your gay" if you want to do cheer. but think about it.
a few dudes and about 300 girls. who really gay.
if they did it here i would do it!.. mainly cos i like girls in cheer outfits. then again. my high school fays was spent hustling lunch money
a few dudes and about 300 girls. who really gay.
if they did it here i would do it!.. mainly cos i like girls in cheer outfits. then again. my high school fays was spent hustling lunch money
Thanks for the replies guys most of my concerns have been answered except the whole purpose of this thread
Will the cheerleaders see me as just a teammate from there on or is it possible I could get something going with one of them.
Will the cheerleaders see me as just a teammate from there on or is it possible I could get something going with one of them.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.