MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Being a DJ could be hazardous to your health
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
HA HA - The advantages of dating a homeless woman are several. You don't have to shave, dress nicely or vacuum your car. You can limit your investment in dinner to the cost of a couple of gas station hotdogs, and after she has given you a BJ in the alley of your choice you can drop her off anywhere.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Ha ha ha - you got me there, Zeek.zekko said:Speaking from experience there, Jophil?
