"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KneghtRyder

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well i 'll let you guys give me some opinons have a crack at it..

This is a waitress at this club, I promised to take to the VIP section a while back. But it costs like 60 bucks, being the cheap ass I kept making excusing until yesterday.

I met her, but she was really pissed off at me, angry wouldn't talk to me much and basically ignored me. she kept saying that I lied to her, well I ve been really busy at work and haven't been to see her since 2 weeks.

She isn't a stripper, I think she is not like the stripper-mentality... I know this is a club and these girls are trained to make guys pay for them. but I think shes really pissed that I lied and it only costs like 60 bucks , not a big deal shes not even a stripper. I spend more money on useless junk for my car...I am Not Poor, Believe me I drive mercedes ending in '55' if you know what i mean.

I guess she does have a right to be upset or angry with me, because she has to make money on the side and what kind of boyfriend are you if you cant spend 60 bucks and she does spend a lot of time with me and after turning out to be the non-reliable . its just an uncomfortable situation i'm in because she might have lost respect for me? And it might be hard to get it back if I pursue this further. before, she held me to a higher regards would talk to me alot and be very open with me, but now she acts like shes given up on me.


I guess, if I want to go out with her, can she get over her angry , and will she over look my cheap ass if I put out some money and she will go back being into me? Is this relationship to the point of no-return?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wtf?

She works at the club, ofcourse she wants you to pay the ****ing 60 bux for VIP. She probably gets a cut of it for leading desperate fools like you to it. Ever seen the South Park episode where Butters falls in love with a Hooter's girl who he thinks is his girlfriend, when actually shes just a slut who acts nice to guys so they buy more and give tips? Yeh, sounds like this.

Idiot. Idiot. Idiot.
 

KneghtRyder

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miba said:
wtf?

She works at the club, ofcourse she wants you to pay the ****ing 60 bux for VIP. She probably gets a cut of it for leading desperate fools like you to it. Ever seen the South Park episode where Butters falls in love with a Hooter's girl who he thinks is his girlfriend, when actually shes just a slut who acts nice to guys so they buy more and give tips? Yeh, sounds like this.

Idiot. Idiot. Idiot.

Yea, I hear you. Yes money matters to this chick , but which chick didn't care for money ? I think this one is different , its not just about money , its goes beyond that. Why does she have to spend so much time with me , talking to me ? ( Many times I didn't even spend 1 penny on her , she tells me days she doesn't work)...well I think the fact that I am so cheap I didn't spend that little on her is what pizzed her off..this is not the first time this happened to me.
 
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