"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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being a cheap azz

KneghtRyder

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well i 'll let you guys give me some opinons have a crack at it..

This is a waitress at this club, I promised to take to the VIP section a while back. But it costs like 60 bucks, being the cheap ass I kept making excusing until yesterday.

I met her, but she was really pissed off at me, angry wouldn't talk to me much and basically ignored me. she kept saying that I lied to her, well I ve been really busy at work and haven't been to see her since 2 weeks.

She isn't a stripper, I think she is not like the stripper-mentality... I know this is a club and these girls are trained to make guys pay for them. but I think shes really pissed that I lied and it only costs like 60 bucks , not a big deal shes not even a stripper. I spend more money on useless junk for my car...I am Not Poor, Believe me I drive mercedes ending in '55' if you know what i mean.

I guess she does have a right to be upset or angry with me, because she has to make money on the side and what kind of boyfriend are you if you cant spend 60 bucks and she does spend a lot of time with me and after turning out to be the non-reliable . its just an uncomfortable situation i'm in because she might have lost respect for me? And it might be hard to get it back if I pursue this further. before, she held me to a higher regards would talk to me alot and be very open with me, but now she acts like shes given up on me.


I guess, if I want to go out with her, can she get over her angry , and will she over look my cheap ass if I put out some money and she will go back being into me? Is this relationship to the point of no-return?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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miba

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wtf?

She works at the club, ofcourse she wants you to pay the ****ing 60 bux for VIP. She probably gets a cut of it for leading desperate fools like you to it. Ever seen the South Park episode where Butters falls in love with a Hooter's girl who he thinks is his girlfriend, when actually shes just a slut who acts nice to guys so they buy more and give tips? Yeh, sounds like this.

Idiot. Idiot. Idiot.
 

KneghtRyder

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miba said:
wtf?

She works at the club, ofcourse she wants you to pay the ****ing 60 bux for VIP. She probably gets a cut of it for leading desperate fools like you to it. Ever seen the South Park episode where Butters falls in love with a Hooter's girl who he thinks is his girlfriend, when actually shes just a slut who acts nice to guys so they buy more and give tips? Yeh, sounds like this.

Idiot. Idiot. Idiot.

Yea, I hear you. Yes money matters to this chick , but which chick didn't care for money ? I think this one is different , its not just about money , its goes beyond that. Why does she have to spend so much time with me , talking to me ? ( Many times I didn't even spend 1 penny on her , she tells me days she doesn't work)...well I think the fact that I am so cheap I didn't spend that little on her is what pizzed her off..this is not the first time this happened to me.
 
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