"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Being a Challenge DOES work.

stuka1939

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I have two recent scenarios, but they are both with young chicks who are both 7 and 10 years younger than me.


Chick A: Went out with her 3X, dumped her on myspace. She called me out on it on the phone and told her I was wrong for dumping her on myspace and we can still be friends. Chick still calls me (I don't return her phone calls) and e-mails me at work (we work in same system, but not location) to hang out. In our e-mail responses I am usually very curt and don't complement her or really seem to concerned what is going on in her life. My interest level in this girl is low and hers is HIGH.

Chick B: Another co-worker (same location) whom I actually think is very cute and who has a boyfriend. I don't complement her or I am very sparse with the complements nor do go out of my way to talk to her or hang out at her department. When she writes me via e-mail, I don't respond right away.

Her Interest Level or should I say flirting level: Very high


You see, no one is saying you have to constantly bust their chops or be an abusive jerk. INDIFFERENCE is the key.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KingBeef

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Hey stuka!! BE CAREFUL WITH DATING CO-WORKERS....I LEARNED MY LESSON....but, nice examples of being the prize

- Kingbeef
 

Warrior74

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watch out. if you mess with the wrong pyscho bytch you could lose your job. its not worth it man.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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