"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Being a Challenge DOES work.

stuka1939

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I have two recent scenarios, but they are both with young chicks who are both 7 and 10 years younger than me.


Chick A: Went out with her 3X, dumped her on myspace. She called me out on it on the phone and told her I was wrong for dumping her on myspace and we can still be friends. Chick still calls me (I don't return her phone calls) and e-mails me at work (we work in same system, but not location) to hang out. In our e-mail responses I am usually very curt and don't complement her or really seem to concerned what is going on in her life. My interest level in this girl is low and hers is HIGH.

Chick B: Another co-worker (same location) whom I actually think is very cute and who has a boyfriend. I don't complement her or I am very sparse with the complements nor do go out of my way to talk to her or hang out at her department. When she writes me via e-mail, I don't respond right away.

Her Interest Level or should I say flirting level: Very high


You see, no one is saying you have to constantly bust their chops or be an abusive jerk. INDIFFERENCE is the key.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KingBeef

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Hey stuka!! BE CAREFUL WITH DATING CO-WORKERS....I LEARNED MY LESSON....but, nice examples of being the prize

- Kingbeef
 

Warrior74

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watch out. if you mess with the wrong pyscho bytch you could lose your job. its not worth it man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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