"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bein' a Jerk!!!!

lgbs2004

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Hello guys, i wanna hear your opinion on something!!! I'm at a bad mood this week 'cause i'm with some money issues and it's making me angry!!! So i'm bein' very rude with the people i met including women and i've realised that the HB's from college are feeling attraction for me. Here's a conversation i had with a HB8.5:

HB8.5: you don't look very good today!!!
me: and what do you have to do with that?
HB8.5: calm down...i'm just askin'!!!
me: i don't like questions, **** off!!!!
HB8.5: you don't need to be so rude
me: are you trying to piss me of?

then i turn my back on her and leave. After the first two classes the same girl came to me again and start talkin':

HB: are you less agressive now?
me: what do you want?
HB: (with a bottle of soda in her hand) want some soda?
me: ok
HB: So...what are your plans for friday night?
me: listen, i don't know...it's wednesday...how can i f***ing know what i'm going to do friday night?
HB: i'm just curious 'cause i don't have nothing to do on friday so i could use some advice on things to do.
me: go ask your girlfriends for advice!!!!
HB: need to go now...talk to you later!!!
and then she leaves.

This is only one of the girls that i've talked that day and with all of them i was the same rude guy.

So, when i got home i started to think about the responses that i get from the pretty girls that day and what that means.

What do you guys think, is my rudeness attracting this girls or i'm just lucky?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's okay to be angry over money matters, but it's never okay to demonstrate anger to others.

So not only has this been making you angry, it's been making you stupid. She asked you for "advice on things to do Friday because she doesn't have anything to do" and you missed that she was hinting for you to ask her out.

Instead all you did was further show that you're an angry man and dense, and turned her off completely.

And no, it's not that your rudeness attracts. She was attracted to you because of other reasons (she's already noticed you in class many times and was attracted) and that's the only reason she bothered to investigate a little bit further to see if you were over your bad mood or not. When it turned out you were still being a hissy fit guy, she walked. If she was attracted to your mood, she would've swooned.
 

lgbs2004

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Mr. Me said:
It's okay to be angry over money matters, but it's never okay to demonstrate anger to others.

So not only has this been making you angry, it's been making you stupid. She asked you for "advice on things to do Friday because she doesn't have anything to do" and you missed that she was hinting for you to ask her out.

Instead all you did was further show that you're an angry man and dense, and turned her off completely.

And no, it's not that your rudeness attracts. She was attracted to you because of other reasons (she's already noticed you in class many times and was attracted) and that's the only reason she bothered to investigate a little bit further to see if you were over your bad mood or not. When it turned out you were still being a hissy fit guy, she walked. If she was attracted to your mood, she would've swooned.
I agree with you!!!! The point is that this day i was angry and i'm not anymore!!! I was talkin' about that attitude of bein rude turnin' this hot chick on!!!
 

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Damn, good game right there?
U Brazillian? your English is good bro
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Being a jerk was half of getting her attention. The other half you didn't have time for her, walked away, stayed mysterious about why you were mad but showed it, and didn't give her much attention.

She was curious to why you were angry and not focusing on her much.

Is your rudeness attracting women. Yes, in a way... Just dont go over-board.
 

lgbs2004

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Yes, i'm brazilian DJVladdy

I had another chat with the HB tonight, here it goes:

HB: are you better tonight?
me: what are you talkin' about?
HB: last night you were a little upset, am i wrong?
me: i'm ok
HB: if you say so.......still with no plans for friday night?
me: what about YOUR plans for friday night?
HB: i don't know yet
me: what about a drink?
HB: only the two of us?
me: yeah...why not?
HB: that sounds good for me
me: ok...so give me your phone number
HB: (write her phone number in a piece of paper) here it is!!!
then i turn my back on her and leave

Yeah, seems to me that this girl was interested in me before my bad attitude with her but i think that this interest came to a breakin' point when i was rude with her and she started to hit on me more directly!!
 
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