Not long ago i was lying awake one night cradling a naked young girl who had fallen asleep on my shoulder. I can never fall asleep in those positions (too damn hot) so I began thinking about my life and her life.
my life - I was lucky enough to be born in the United States to a fairly well-off family. This allowed me to get a good (and expensive) education which helped me get where I am now. That is, in a position which is more comfortable than any i've had before and more independent than I ever thought I'd be.
Her life - while she hadn't grown up in poverty, and she had a decent job, there was almost zero chance she could achieve the level of material prosperity I had, through fortune and skill.
BUT, simply because she had taken her clothes off and encouraged me to touch her however I wanted, she instantly had access, at least for a while, to the same life that i had.
This doesn't mean I didn't like her. I enjoyed her conversation, she cooked for me, cleaned my apartment and folded my clothes, left me sweet little notes for me which made me feel good.
Still, if the situation were reversed, I really doubt i could've gotten so far with her simply by looking nice and making dinner.
just some thoughts. React how you please.
my life - I was lucky enough to be born in the United States to a fairly well-off family. This allowed me to get a good (and expensive) education which helped me get where I am now. That is, in a position which is more comfortable than any i've had before and more independent than I ever thought I'd be.
Her life - while she hadn't grown up in poverty, and she had a decent job, there was almost zero chance she could achieve the level of material prosperity I had, through fortune and skill.
BUT, simply because she had taken her clothes off and encouraged me to touch her however I wanted, she instantly had access, at least for a while, to the same life that i had.
This doesn't mean I didn't like her. I enjoyed her conversation, she cooked for me, cleaned my apartment and folded my clothes, left me sweet little notes for me which made me feel good.
Still, if the situation were reversed, I really doubt i could've gotten so far with her simply by looking nice and making dinner.
just some thoughts. React how you please.