"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Behold, the Power of Pvssy

Leporello

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Not long ago i was lying awake one night cradling a naked young girl who had fallen asleep on my shoulder. I can never fall asleep in those positions (too damn hot) so I began thinking about my life and her life.

my life - I was lucky enough to be born in the United States to a fairly well-off family. This allowed me to get a good (and expensive) education which helped me get where I am now. That is, in a position which is more comfortable than any i've had before and more independent than I ever thought I'd be.

Her life - while she hadn't grown up in poverty, and she had a decent job, there was almost zero chance she could achieve the level of material prosperity I had, through fortune and skill.

BUT, simply because she had taken her clothes off and encouraged me to touch her however I wanted, she instantly had access, at least for a while, to the same life that i had.

This doesn't mean I didn't like her. I enjoyed her conversation, she cooked for me, cleaned my apartment and folded my clothes, left me sweet little notes for me which made me feel good.

Still, if the situation were reversed, I really doubt i could've gotten so far with her simply by looking nice and making dinner.

just some thoughts. React how you please.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tiguere

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Its ingrained in her biology to mate with someone who have the resource to care for her and her offsprings in this cold cruel world.
 

TheMale

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tiguere: you mean kind of the survival law ?
people are attracted (not only physically) to the ones that have the more chance of survival ??
 

PappyS

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Too bad that power wears out fast like Cinderella's fairy god-mother's spell.
 

synergy1

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its a double edged sword. when you rely on others to take care of you, the competition is fiercer for those who are better off. Look at my picture of Tyler Senguin who had 5 girls on him - how can swaths of women differentiate themselves to others?

I'd rather have control of my destiny. F- relying on luck and looks to get ahead. In this sense, men have it much better.

(no disrespect for women who work and succeed. I know plenty who do and they deserve adulation as well)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bigneil

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Arguing over which sex has it better is like preferring Yin over Yang.

Women have to catch our eye, drive us crazy and convince us to give them half our resources - otherwise our species wouldn't survive.

"Even the wisest man is a fool about women.
Even the most foolish woman is wise about men".
 

DonGorgon

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no.. its just demand and supply .. womens vaginas only have so much value and power cause for most men its very hard to get access to vaginas especially on a pretty woman.. if tomorrow the number of men on earth was reduced by 50% womens power would be gone..
 

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Kerpal said:
Every time I see some dumb trophy wife spending her husband's money at the mall, I think to myself:

"If she was a man, she'd be starving on a sidewalk right now".
And this is what makes woman THINK that they are the CHOOSERS!
 

Stagger Lee

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Slick101 said:
And this is what makes woman THINK that they are the CHOOSERS!
But how is she still not the chooser? She chose to be a trophy wife. Do you think she wouldn't have a better chance getting a corporate jumb than a man as equally dumb as her? Do you think she couldn't go to the bar and choose most nay guy and probably another wealthy one? I don't know of any men that have those choices.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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