"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jaun_Don

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So I was out drinking tonight and speaking to a Woman friend tonight that is the same age as me and she was telling me that some girls might first not be attracted to a guy like that, but quite often they see certain behaviours in a Male and think differently about them.

Have you ever heard of this before?

Also, lately I keep getting attention from young girls (18 up) and I feel a little bad about it, I got 2 cell numbers tonight at a bar I went too and there was one cutie that I had me eye on (her perfume had me first) that gave me some interesting looks, the first time she looked at me after this dude was mauling her and he left...and the couple I was with were like did you see that? and I said yeah I did but I am hardly going to speak to her after that dude has just pashed her right...anyways they came back and she brushed him off and then a bunch of her girlfriends came over and myself and the couple I was drinking with noticed that she was looking over at me a few times, but I kind of ignored it then when she was getting up to leave she gave me a look that said 'so why didn't you come and talk to me"?, the couple noticed it before i did.

What should have I done here?.
Man she was cute
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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chance

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you know what you should of done! you gave up cause you thought some guy had already picked her up. well did it ever occur to you that maybe she didn't want any other guy that night but you? i say, always go for it, even if other guys are around. that's the challenge baby!
 

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Originally posted by chance
you know what you should of done! you gave up cause you thought some guy had already picked her up. well did it ever occur to you that maybe she didn't want any other guy that night but you? i say, always go for it, even if other guys are around. that's the challenge baby!
yeah but dude was like putting his hands on her and **** and she was responding so...
 

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so what! you still had your chance to impress her and beat that guy! you should of taken the chance quicker and beat others to it. maybe she got bored or thought you weren't interested enough and put her focus on the guy that actually had the balls to go up to her. unlucky pal, next time do it! :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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