"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jaun_Don

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So I was out drinking tonight and speaking to a Woman friend tonight that is the same age as me and she was telling me that some girls might first not be attracted to a guy like that, but quite often they see certain behaviours in a Male and think differently about them.

Have you ever heard of this before?

Also, lately I keep getting attention from young girls (18 up) and I feel a little bad about it, I got 2 cell numbers tonight at a bar I went too and there was one cutie that I had me eye on (her perfume had me first) that gave me some interesting looks, the first time she looked at me after this dude was mauling her and he left...and the couple I was with were like did you see that? and I said yeah I did but I am hardly going to speak to her after that dude has just pashed her right...anyways they came back and she brushed him off and then a bunch of her girlfriends came over and myself and the couple I was drinking with noticed that she was looking over at me a few times, but I kind of ignored it then when she was getting up to leave she gave me a look that said 'so why didn't you come and talk to me"?, the couple noticed it before i did.

What should have I done here?.
Man she was cute
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you know what you should of done! you gave up cause you thought some guy had already picked her up. well did it ever occur to you that maybe she didn't want any other guy that night but you? i say, always go for it, even if other guys are around. that's the challenge baby!
 

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Originally posted by chance
you know what you should of done! you gave up cause you thought some guy had already picked her up. well did it ever occur to you that maybe she didn't want any other guy that night but you? i say, always go for it, even if other guys are around. that's the challenge baby!
yeah but dude was like putting his hands on her and **** and she was responding so...
 

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so what! you still had your chance to impress her and beat that guy! you should of taken the chance quicker and beat others to it. maybe she got bored or thought you weren't interested enough and put her focus on the guy that actually had the balls to go up to her. unlucky pal, next time do it! :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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