"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Beginning workouts, how long before you notice gains?

diplomatic_lies

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I am just a beginner at working out, and I stopped for a bit recently due to exams. I've restarted now since realising stopping wasn't the best thing to do.


I only did 2 weeks workouts before exams, and now I've done 1 week (2 workouts).

How soon should I notice results (which indicates I am doing everything carefully)? I am very thin, but have some fat around my stomach, and just starting workout.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DIESEL

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how do you define "gains"?

If you think you're going to look like Schwarzenegger in 3 months.. dream on.

If you read my GUIDE TO BULKING UP and follow it TO THE LETTER.. you might be able to slap on at least 10 LBS of solid muscle in the first 2-3 months.

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p.s. THERE IS NEVER AN EXCUSE TO NOT WORK OUT. AS WITH ANYTHING THAT IS REALLY IMPORTANT TO YOU, YOU MAKE THE TIME. EVEN IF ONLY 30 MINS. IT'S CALLED TIME MANAGEMENT.
 

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Yea, make sure you aren't spinning your wheels by neglecting diet and rest. Quality time in the gym is less than half of the equation.
 

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true true...

Also you have to decide for yourself what your goal is... do you want to be stronger, which is the true purpose of working out? Or are you trying to improve your body "look"

In terms of strength.... working out on a consistent schedule will help. After 6 months of working out for about 45 minutes a day for 4 days a work... you will notice quite a difference. (I'm using that as an example, because that's what we did senior year of highschool. Weightlifting met every day, 5 days a week, and one day was "game day")
so... I noticed, that over say a 6 month period, my bench went from 180 lbs to 235... And many other excercises go up by rather large amounts as well.

There are a huge number of different workouts for different goals... so you'll have to find one that suits you.
 

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My goal is basically to put on some muscle. Not too much, but to "balance" my chest and abs (having a chest that sticks out more than the stomach), as well as decent growth in arms.


Basically, what you would define as a cut body. Not bodybuilder-type, but just a little muscly.

I'm uncertain when to start seeing results. I try to eat as healthy as a I can, and I usually do weights that are heavy enough that I can only do 7-8 reps before I have to rest.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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if you want to bulk... a good way is to do weights that go up... in a 10 - 8 - 6 reps format, or 8 - 6 - 4... where the weight goes up with each set.
 
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