"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Beginning the Don Juan journey

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hey everybody!! i just joined the site and have read some pretty amazing things out here. i came here looking for how to get girls but now i have learned that its not about the girls, but its all about ME :) i decided to post this because i hope that some of you higher Don Juan's will take me under your wings and help me in my journey i read about writing down your goals and these are mine
1) i need to get into the mindset that i control my life and what happens in it
2) i need to improve my social skills and get newer friends who also are interested in changing there lives
3) i need to get rid of my approach anxiety


i am really happy to have found this site and i hope that it would help me improve:woo:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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