"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Beginning the Don Juan journey

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hey everybody!! i just joined the site and have read some pretty amazing things out here. i came here looking for how to get girls but now i have learned that its not about the girls, but its all about ME :) i decided to post this because i hope that some of you higher Don Juan's will take me under your wings and help me in my journey i read about writing down your goals and these are mine
1) i need to get into the mindset that i control my life and what happens in it
2) i need to improve my social skills and get newer friends who also are interested in changing there lives
3) i need to get rid of my approach anxiety


i am really happy to have found this site and i hope that it would help me improve:woo:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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