"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Beginning of a relationship???She's flaking!!

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I have an impression that all the great DJ's that I've seen we're chasing after the girl in the beggining and then later when the girl started to love the man, the DJ got colder and colder, what is the opinion of real DJ's on this?

I've been with my girlfriend for a week and a half and she can rarely go out and when I try to set a good time to met, she says her parents don't let her and she doesn't seem as that she wants to compromise at all???!!!

WHAT TO DO WITHOUT SEEMING LIKE A WUSSY???
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Amateur_FOR_NOW
I have an impression that all the great DJ's that I've seen we're chasing after the girl in the beggining and then later when the girl started to love the man, the DJ got colder and colder, what is the opinion of real DJ's on this?

I've been with my girlfriend for a week and a half and she can rarely go out and when I try to set a good time to met, she says her parents don't let her and she doesn't seem as that she wants to compromise at all???!!!

WHAT TO DO WITHOUT SEEMING LIKE A WUSSY???
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Go do something else. Leave her alone.

And turn off your cell phone. :)
 
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I have an impression that all the great DJ's that I've seen we're chasing after the girl in the beggining and then later when the girl started to love the man, the DJ got colder and colder, what is the opinion of real DJ's on this?

Real DJ's don't chase, they give the girl an opportunity to meet their standards, they are given a chance to qualify themselves.

she says her parents don't let her and she doesn't seem as that she wants to compromise at all???!!!

Start making plans with your friends to go out... Stop asking her to hangout, distance yourself from her...see how she reacts.
 
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Originally posted by biker_gixxer
I have an impression that all the great DJ's that I've seen we're chasing after the girl in the beggining and then later when the girl started to love the man, the DJ got colder and colder, what is the opinion of real DJ's on this?

Real DJ's don't chase, they give the girl an opportunity to meet their standards, they are given a chance to qualify themselves.

she says her parents don't let her and she doesn't seem as that she wants to compromise at all???!!!

Start making plans with your friends to go out... Stop asking her to hangout, distance yourself from her...see how she reacts.
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Ok I get it, but this is the beggining of the relationship and I thought that we should at least in the beggining build comfort and connection?
 
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