Beginning of a relationship???She's flaking!!

[Amateur_FOR_NOW]

I have an impression that all the great DJ's that I've seen we're chasing after the girl in the beggining and then later when the girl started to love the man, the DJ got colder and colder, what is the opinion of real DJ's on this?

I've been with my girlfriend for a week and a half and she can rarely go out and when I try to set a good time to met, she says her parents don't let her and she doesn't seem as that she wants to compromise at all???!!!

WHAT TO DO WITHOUT SEEMING LIKE A WUSSY???

 

[djbr]

Originally posted by Amateur_FOR_NOW
I have an impression that all the great DJ's that I've seen we're chasing after the girl in the beggining and then later when the girl started to love the man, the DJ got colder and colder, what is the opinion of real DJ's on this?

I've been with my girlfriend for a week and a half and she can rarely go out and when I try to set a good time to met, she says her parents don't let her and she doesn't seem as that she wants to compromise at all???!!!

WHAT TO DO WITHOUT SEEMING LIKE A WUSSY???

Go do something else. Leave her alone.

And turn off your cell phone.

 

[biker_gixxer]

I have an impression that all the great DJ's that I've seen we're chasing after the girl in the beggining and then later when the girl started to love the man, the DJ got colder and colder, what is the opinion of real DJ's on this?

Real DJ's don't chase, they give the girl an opportunity to meet their standards, they are given a chance to qualify themselves.

she says her parents don't let her and she doesn't seem as that she wants to compromise at all???!!!

Start making plans with your friends to go out... Stop asking her to hangout, distance yourself from her...see how she reacts.

 

[Amateur_FOR_NOW]

Originally posted by biker_gixxer
I have an impression that all the great DJ's that I've seen we're chasing after the girl in the beggining and then later when the girl started to love the man, the DJ got colder and colder, what is the opinion of real DJ's on this?

Real DJ's don't chase, they give the girl an opportunity to meet their standards, they are given a chance to qualify themselves.

she says her parents don't let her and she doesn't seem as that she wants to compromise at all???!!!

Start making plans with your friends to go out... Stop asking her to hangout, distance yourself from her...see how she reacts.

Ok I get it, but this is the beggining of the relationship and I thought that we should at least in the beggining build comfort and connection?