Is this equifax page safe? They say in their terms of agreement that they are allowed to give out my information (SSN) to 3rd parties etc Also is this a 1 time charge of $12 or some sort of subscription because they dont specify.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I would hope that it's safe. That's where all of your private credit info goes to get processed.Originally posted by Drex
Is this equifax page safe? They say in their terms of agreement that they are allowed to give out my information (SSN) to 3rd parties etc Also is this a 1 time charge of $12 or some sort of subscription because they dont specify.
EVERYWHERE! Do a search.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Where are those lenders who don't look at your credit or assets?
So you aren't talking about real estate? Of course you still have to use the property as collateral. You are looking for a business loan. That's different.My loan of $20K has been rejected by basically every bank, lending institute, and even those dodgy ads you find in the Pages.
We are refinancing seven properties right now using no verify loans. Some of the appraisals were done today.Do those lenders who don't mind if you have no assets and no income (all my income is unreported, since its not official) actually lend you money? And do they charge high interest?
This one I have to take issue with. You really have to be careful what you write off as a scam. Plenty of people would call Russ and Carleton snake oil peddlers, and I can tell you firsthand thats not the case.Originally posted by Page
5. Money flees from the man who buys into schemes and those who promise high rates of return with little proof.
Basically-- don't buy into get-rich-quick schemes. Also, don't frequent casinos in attempts to get rich quick. Don't take risks with your money by investing it in fly-by-night stocks or companies. If you do these things, you will probably lose far more than you wil ever earn with this route.
I would like to hear more on this.Originally posted by Ubermensch
I did one deal in which the judge ruled my lease a mortgage on account of the nature of the deal, and I COULD NOT EVICT THE DEADBEAT who's sponging off me to the tune of $800 per month because of some ridiculously stupid precedent that has been taken beyond its original intent.
Sounds nearly identical to my situation. Those credit cards are an indespensible part of my tool chest.But, that said, I've been making a decent living off real estate investment for the past several years, after starting about $10,000 in debt without a good job. Nothing but a lot of credit cards and a good credit rating to start.
Thats why whenever you pickup real estate you should avoid the down payment like the plague.The main thing I'd advise is not to have a lot of your own money sunk into any one deal for a long time until you have at least $100,000 in some combination of readily available credit and/or money in the bank. Working capital is the fuel that runs the engine. Without it, your program will be choked off.
Never done it that way, you have any more info?Find "hard-money" lenders who will lend on property based on its after-repair potential, and will fund the purchase, closing costs, and rehab costs. The best deals are generally properties that need a lot of work.
I'm the KING of living below my means! I got in a little too deep having to live off credit cards when I opened my business six years ago, but I'm all caught up now.Live well below your means. If your regular expenses are too high -- especially non-appreciating assets, such as cars -- you could get eaten up by them. At least I've not pissed away money on expensive cars.
You must not have read the whole thread. The $10k is only equity, and if you hold the property for awhile it will put you ahead of the game. i wasn't talking about turning the property.Originally posted by Ubermensch
If you buy a property worth $100,000 for $90,000, you're NOT making $10,000 -- unless you SIMULTANEOUSLY find a buyer to whom you can assign the deal for $10,000, which is such a ridiculous scenario words cannot desribe it.
Well, I'm just rolling back into the real estate game, so we shall see if what you say is true. Also, some markets are different than others.On the other hand, you'll have much better odds of buying a house for $30,000 that has an after-repair value of $100,000 and needs $30,000 of work, and selling the house very quickly for $40,000
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Russ Whitney really helped me. He thinks along the same lines I do. Looks like he has a newer book that I need to order. Make sure you read Rich Dad too.Originally posted by thissucks003
Thanks Str8up for sharing the information. I am definitely interested in learning more about real estate. If there are any other books you recommend to a newbie in this arena, please post. I could use the help.
Thanks,
TS
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.