Is this equifax page safe? They say in their terms of agreement that they are allowed to give out my information (SSN) to 3rd parties etc Also is this a 1 time charge of $12 or some sort of subscription because they dont specify.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I would hope that it's safe. That's where all of your private credit info goes to get processed.Originally posted by Drex
Is this equifax page safe? They say in their terms of agreement that they are allowed to give out my information (SSN) to 3rd parties etc Also is this a 1 time charge of $12 or some sort of subscription because they dont specify.
EVERYWHERE! Do a search.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Where are those lenders who don't look at your credit or assets?
So you aren't talking about real estate? Of course you still have to use the property as collateral. You are looking for a business loan. That's different.My loan of $20K has been rejected by basically every bank, lending institute, and even those dodgy ads you find in the Pages.
We are refinancing seven properties right now using no verify loans. Some of the appraisals were done today.Do those lenders who don't mind if you have no assets and no income (all my income is unreported, since its not official) actually lend you money? And do they charge high interest?
This one I have to take issue with. You really have to be careful what you write off as a scam. Plenty of people would call Russ and Carleton snake oil peddlers, and I can tell you firsthand thats not the case.Originally posted by Page
5. Money flees from the man who buys into schemes and those who promise high rates of return with little proof.
Basically-- don't buy into get-rich-quick schemes. Also, don't frequent casinos in attempts to get rich quick. Don't take risks with your money by investing it in fly-by-night stocks or companies. If you do these things, you will probably lose far more than you wil ever earn with this route.
I would like to hear more on this.Originally posted by Ubermensch
I did one deal in which the judge ruled my lease a mortgage on account of the nature of the deal, and I COULD NOT EVICT THE DEADBEAT who's sponging off me to the tune of $800 per month because of some ridiculously stupid precedent that has been taken beyond its original intent.
Sounds nearly identical to my situation. Those credit cards are an indespensible part of my tool chest.But, that said, I've been making a decent living off real estate investment for the past several years, after starting about $10,000 in debt without a good job. Nothing but a lot of credit cards and a good credit rating to start.
Thats why whenever you pickup real estate you should avoid the down payment like the plague.The main thing I'd advise is not to have a lot of your own money sunk into any one deal for a long time until you have at least $100,000 in some combination of readily available credit and/or money in the bank. Working capital is the fuel that runs the engine. Without it, your program will be choked off.
Never done it that way, you have any more info?Find "hard-money" lenders who will lend on property based on its after-repair potential, and will fund the purchase, closing costs, and rehab costs. The best deals are generally properties that need a lot of work.
I'm the KING of living below my means! I got in a little too deep having to live off credit cards when I opened my business six years ago, but I'm all caught up now.Live well below your means. If your regular expenses are too high -- especially non-appreciating assets, such as cars -- you could get eaten up by them. At least I've not pissed away money on expensive cars.
You must not have read the whole thread. The $10k is only equity, and if you hold the property for awhile it will put you ahead of the game. i wasn't talking about turning the property.Originally posted by Ubermensch
If you buy a property worth $100,000 for $90,000, you're NOT making $10,000 -- unless you SIMULTANEOUSLY find a buyer to whom you can assign the deal for $10,000, which is such a ridiculous scenario words cannot desribe it.
Well, I'm just rolling back into the real estate game, so we shall see if what you say is true. Also, some markets are different than others.On the other hand, you'll have much better odds of buying a house for $30,000 that has an after-repair value of $100,000 and needs $30,000 of work, and selling the house very quickly for $40,000
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Russ Whitney really helped me. He thinks along the same lines I do. Looks like he has a newer book that I need to order. Make sure you read Rich Dad too.Originally posted by thissucks003
Thanks Str8up for sharing the information. I am definitely interested in learning more about real estate. If there are any other books you recommend to a newbie in this arena, please post. I could use the help.
Thanks,
TS
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.