"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Beginner Questions about the Rational Male

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TechnoScotch said:
  1. Rollo says that the fact that I am non monogamous should be implied, but never overtly communicated to the women. But what if they ask directly?
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I tried, I mean I really tried reading the rational male but I got fvcking bored halfway through and never finished, but I'll tell you what I did when a women asks me the same - directly.

I'll simply state that I'm dating a variety of women to find the best possible mate and then smile at her.

It always works for me and women in general accepts this.

TechnoScotch said:
  1. If I am spinning plates by being non monogamous, does that mean I have to accept that the women I am dating are also non monogamous? Is it a legitimate position to have, that while I am non monogamous, I expect the women I date to be monogamous?
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No. Don't accept such a position. If you find them to be non monogamous then dump them posthaste.

Only spin plates that's has their full attention towards you and not some other men.

Ideally have a maximum of 3 plates in 1 geographical area.

You could have more then 3 plates but it must be in different geographical areas to be sustainable.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Different strategies work for different guys and you need to figure out what works for you.

I like the “cheeky” humorous deflection.
For the first question you can say “A gentleman never tells” or some derivation thereof. You aren’t lying you are conveying that you are choosing not to discuss it.

Why lie or tell the truth when you can obfuscate and be intriguing.

As for your second question you should always presume that a woman has multiple choices until she shows loyalty and even then loyalty is only as good as what is shown and can change at any time.
 
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Spaz said:
I tried, I mean I really tried reading the rational male but I got fvcking bored halfway through and never finished, but I'll tell you what I did when a women asks me the same - directly.

I'll simply state that I'm dating a variety of women to find the best possible mate and then smile at her.

It always works for me and women in general accepts this.
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Indeed.
 
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