"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Before you post a question. Read the freaking DJ bible. 99% of your answers are there

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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At the risk of getting raked over the coals, I don't think pointing people in the direction of the DJ Bible is necessarily the way to go. I think it's way too philosophical and over analytical.
 

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evansblue said:
At the risk of getting raked over the coals, I don't think pointing people in the direction of the DJ Bible is necessarily the way to go. I think it's way too philosophical and over analytical.
Are you sh!ting me mate ? If you can't be stuffed to read the bible or at least the parts that are relevent to your issue then you deserve all the misery and rubbish you get from you current predicament.

Seriously this generation need to realise that sometimes the answers you seek require you to actually put into a little effort and work out the answer on your own using a few philosophical books as guides instead of blatently asking for the right answer like a spoilt child.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Espi said:
The DJB should be questioned...it's good to test everything...
I agree. But, it should be questioned by people who read it and have an understanding of the basics.

This is like telling a 2nd grader that he should question calculus. He wouldn't even know where to begin. The DJB is the culmination of hundreds of thousands, if not millions, of discussions about all of the things that come to mind when we deal with women, and ourselves. For a new person to come in and question the methods without at least reading and understanding them is hubris.

I'm by no means a traditionalist. But, I understand why tradition is so powerful, and in many ways practical.

Long in short, Warrior is trying to highlight the fact that new members generally ask really inane questions that they themselves could answer with 5 minutes of critical thought, or 5 minutes of reading the DJB. Granted, when they first join, they don't know about the DJB - but that's what this post is for.

The DJB is a great resource for simple stuff that can give news guys a sense of direction, and a sense of scope. How their little question reveals bigger questions.

You don't have to agree with all of it - hell, I don't. I think it's way overcomplicated in a lot of places, especially when we get into "analyzing women." For me, that's a huge no-no. I don't analyze sh*t. She wants me, or she don't. That's it.

But, to say that because I don't agree with another point of view doesn't mean it's not worth reading about, or knowing about. You can't say for sure what works best for you until you've tried other methods, and been other places.
 

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You do know if everyone did read the DJB before posting ta thread the activity of this board would go down 90%.
 

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I agree.
While the bible won't have the specific awnser to every question that isn't it's main purpose. It's there to help unlearn all the bs that alot of first timers to the site come here with and get them in the objective mentality necessary to have a fighting chance in the game. It isn't THAT long and will assist in many areas beyond just women.

Instead though so many people show up for the quick fix "I'm a pathetic loser, fix me but it better not be anything that involves work or something I don't wanna hear" What are the vets suppose to say to that?
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
You do know if everyone did read the DJB before posting ta thread the activity of this board would go down 90%.
Espi said:
Is that a good thing?
Yes and no. I don't think the activity would go down 90%. I think it would go down about 30%, and the quality of questions would increase drastically. THAT would be a good thing.
 
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This !!!!!!!!!!^^^^^^^^^^^^^
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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