"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Before you date... (a discussion)

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This is a discussion about what, as men, should we do with ourselves BEFORE we start dating.

There is an amazing ammount of information on here about dating women, seduction, even self-improvement, but i've noticed this recent trend (at least on the 'Tips' section) about getting your life together first - even withholding from dating any girls to get your life on track.

What are you guys' thoughts on getting your life together before you start dating women? Do you think this is a requirement so that you don't seek your acceptance from women? What does this involve (exerice? meditation? eating right? what..?) How long should you take to get your life together before you try to bring another girl into your world?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i think you must be able to look yourself in the mirror and be able to smirk at yourself tihking"im the shi+"
you must be able to accept who you are and be comfortable with who you are in any situation.
 
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I think this maybe different for everyone.

Personally, I just basicly started focussing on getting my life together but it never stopped me from dating. I used the dating to learn and to practice.

Instead of looking at every girl and trying to either sack her or get into a LTR, I basicly just had fun with them and trying out some of the things I learned. In my case this helped improve my confidence with girls but like I said, it might be different for other guys.
 
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Depends whether you justify your confidence and self-worth by external factors and accomplishments. If you have unconditional confidence and self-image "I exist therefore I'm confident" then you don't need much prerequisites.
 
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it's simple... live a happy life without girls... until girls become an addition to your life not your life itself
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Experience, including dating, will help you get your life together. Combining the information here and relating it to your experiences will help you grow and improve how you handle life. Remember, a LARGE part of a man's life consists of women.

To get your life together, you should be focussing on all aspects of it. This includes dealing with your fears, health morals, values, career, women, the list goes on and on.

If you put off dating until you get your life together, you're never gonna get laid. Self-improvement can last a lifetime.
 
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