"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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before anyone blows their brains out - MATCHMAKING SERVICES and GEOPOLITICALLY...

Delta

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howdy,

i've been swinging back and forth between thinking that i can really do this and thinking oh god, how'm i ever going to do this.

but TWO things keep me from despair - consolation prizes that are my 'safety net' if i fail completely and miss the window of opportunity afforded to me.

1. matchmaking services... i found this one from a book that i got http://www.itsjustlunch.com/ ... it's $1500 a year and they set you up on a couple of dates a month for the year. it's not a negligible expense but it could keep you from slitting your wrists.

2. go caveman on the process and cash in your citizenship. it is LITERALLY the modern day equivalent of taking a big stick and whacking a chick over the head with it and dragging her off to your cave. but if it keeps you from slitting your wrists, it's a good thing right?

delta
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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$1500......i would just buy a load of new clothes and spend more on going out.......That would get me a few dates more every month easy....
 

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alas, i don't think i'm in that group yet... also, if guys have this as a real possibility, i don't think they'd be in danger of blowing their brains out.

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