"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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before anyone blows their brains out - MATCHMAKING SERVICES and GEOPOLITICALLY...

Delta

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howdy,

i've been swinging back and forth between thinking that i can really do this and thinking oh god, how'm i ever going to do this.

but TWO things keep me from despair - consolation prizes that are my 'safety net' if i fail completely and miss the window of opportunity afforded to me.

1. matchmaking services... i found this one from a book that i got http://www.itsjustlunch.com/ ... it's $1500 a year and they set you up on a couple of dates a month for the year. it's not a negligible expense but it could keep you from slitting your wrists.

2. go caveman on the process and cash in your citizenship. it is LITERALLY the modern day equivalent of taking a big stick and whacking a chick over the head with it and dragging her off to your cave. but if it keeps you from slitting your wrists, it's a good thing right?

delta
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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$1500......i would just buy a load of new clothes and spend more on going out.......That would get me a few dates more every month easy....
 

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alas, i don't think i'm in that group yet... also, if guys have this as a real possibility, i don't think they'd be in danger of blowing their brains out.

delta
 
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