"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Beer-breath, and sober chicks in bars and nightclubs

The_Reaper

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When you're sober in a club or bar, you can smell the drink on people a mile away.
In nightclubs it's worse, because people have to get right up in your face and shout at you over the music. And if they've been drinking beer, the smell of it is strong. And it just seems nasty, even if you enjoy drinking.
When you've had a few beers yourself, you can smell nothing.

This led me to think: any girls in the club who are not drinking must be so fckin put off by beer-breath dip$hits shouting lines in their ear. It must be puke-inducing!

I was listening to Tyler's blueprint decoded, and in it he casually mentions that he NEVER touches alcohol. And that's pretty cool in my opinion.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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vitor

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Why would a woman go to a club if was not to dance or have guys try to pick them up? I think this type of stuff should be expected..
 

Murse

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Exactly, girls could just dance at home in there living rooms if that was the case. But NOoo. They like to dress up, be the centre of attention and be validated by guys hitting on them.

They don't mean to be *****es it's just they get fed up having to listen to the same old **** from every guy. Then the DJ comes along...
 
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