"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So I met this girl in September and we talk. We're friends, sometimes hang around the same people, and we have one class together. I talk to her online. But not as much in person. Whenver I IM her online, and she says hi back, I usually don't reply right away and she follows up with a whatsup. Also, she has been the one who gives me advice every now and then on my past problems. And I help her a lot on tests/hw and such. I want to ask her to winterball but I want your guys' advice on this situation and how I should play this
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you in the friends zone? (my guess is yes)

Have you been gaming her? (my guess is no)

Either way, kino escalate and go for the kiss ASAP.

If she rejects, withdraw attention and game other girls to make her jealous. That's your only hope.

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We're pretty good friends id say. We talk almost every day, and she said she likes my hair (It's cute were her exact words. But dont gel it)
 
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It seems like you are in the friend zone, but I would ask her to go to the winterball, and get the kino going
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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winterball as friends fvck no not unless you only want to BE friends. Sack up.
 
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so say like "Hey. Would you like to be my date to winter ball?"
 
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