"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Been friends since September

J

jwei44

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2009
Messages
31
Reaction score
0
So I met this girl in September and we talk. We're friends, sometimes hang around the same people, and we have one class together. I talk to her online. But not as much in person. Whenver I IM her online, and she says hi back, I usually don't reply right away and she follows up with a whatsup. Also, she has been the one who gives me advice every now and then on my past problems. And I help her a lot on tests/hw and such. I want to ask her to winterball but I want your guys' advice on this situation and how I should play this
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

K

katatonia

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2009
Messages
256
Reaction score
6
Are you in the friends zone? (my guess is yes)

Have you been gaming her? (my guess is no)

Either way, kino escalate and go for the kiss ASAP.

If she rejects, withdraw attention and game other girls to make her jealous. That's your only hope.

/thread
 
J

jwei44

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2009
Messages
31
Reaction score
0
We're pretty good friends id say. We talk almost every day, and she said she likes my hair (It's cute were her exact words. But dont gel it)
 
M

MR MIZUN0

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 24, 2009
Messages
41
Reaction score
0
It seems like you are in the friend zone, but I would ask her to go to the winterball, and get the kino going
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

I

Ice882

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 23, 2009
Messages
451
Reaction score
19
winterball as friends fvck no not unless you only want to BE friends. Sack up.
 
J

jwei44

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2009
Messages
31
Reaction score
0
so say like "Hey. Would you like to be my date to winter ball?"
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top