Riodegrand
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Been dating this girl seriously since late February. In general I'd say our chemistry is very good. She and I are similar minded smart ppl. I am an engineer, and she is also engineer. We both have a few ex's, as expected of people who are in the mid/late 20's. We both have spent nights at each other's places before, and of course there were lots of kisses and cuddles and touches. But NEVER SEX. By that I mean either oral or vaginal. I played with her using my hands a couple times, and she seemed to enjoy it, and then I'd be shut down cold.
I tried to ask her for the reasons before, and she told me that she is not ready. But after almost 4 months and multiple dates and nights that we spent at each others' place? I feel like I am waist deep in this relationship ready to make a future with her, and she is still at shore trying to test the water.
I want to have a conversation with her but so far every time I approach her about this she seems to be too shy and unwilling to talk about it. We'd be flirting on the phone and she'd always stop cold when things gets a little hot and heavy. I feel like if sex is not spontaneous and willing and sexy and fun, then she is not committed in this relationship in the long run... AND IT'S DRIVING ME A LITTLE NUTS.
Any suggestions for me, my fellow brethrens?
I tried to ask her for the reasons before, and she told me that she is not ready. But after almost 4 months and multiple dates and nights that we spent at each others' place? I feel like I am waist deep in this relationship ready to make a future with her, and she is still at shore trying to test the water.
I want to have a conversation with her but so far every time I approach her about this she seems to be too shy and unwilling to talk about it. We'd be flirting on the phone and she'd always stop cold when things gets a little hot and heavy. I feel like if sex is not spontaneous and willing and sexy and fun, then she is not committed in this relationship in the long run... AND IT'S DRIVING ME A LITTLE NUTS.
Any suggestions for me, my fellow brethrens?