"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hey guys whats up. god i havent posted in forever. good thing i still keep in touch with a few of you on aim.

anyways...homecoming. never, ever asked a girl out to a dance before. (private ****ing schools til now...no dances) so how do u guys usually line it? basically i was thinking of just getting a conversation towards homecoming and asking if she had a date yet etc etc so uh you wanna go?

but i'm sure theres something more witty than that.


gimme a holla! -danno
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
hey guys whats up. god i havent posted in forever. good thing i still keep in touch with a few of you on aim.

anyways...homecoming. never, ever asked a girl out to a dance before. (private ****ing schools til now...no dances) so how do u guys usually line it? basically i was thinking of just getting a conversation towards homecoming and asking if she had a date yet etc etc so uh you wanna go?

but i'm sure theres something more witty than that.


gimme a holla! -danno
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Basically you have the right idea, talk about the dance and ask her if she has a date and would she like to go with you (if she dosent have a date)
 
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I would go up to the girl and ask if you could talk to her privately for a minute. Then, just ask her if she's going to the dance and if she wants to go with you...that's pretty much the best way. It's direct
 
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TELL her, "Your going to the homecoming dance with me, or if you don't think you can handle the fun/handle yourself being in the presence of a hot guy"

If she declines, tease her about how she can't handle the fun or she can't handle herself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hey danno, havent seen you on aol in a while. This year for homecoming they are doing a ****y remote location where there can only be 300-350 people.... so there are about 5 or 6 "anti homecoming" parties going on. I'm going to those.

Personaly I think all the dressing up and being all formal is OVERRATED! I'm not putting a tuxedo on till somebody dies.
 
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