"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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been a long time

dannowillbookem

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hey guys whats up. god i havent posted in forever. good thing i still keep in touch with a few of you on aim.

anyways...homecoming. never, ever asked a girl out to a dance before. (private ****ing schools til now...no dances) so how do u guys usually line it? basically i was thinking of just getting a conversation towards homecoming and asking if she had a date yet etc etc so uh you wanna go?

but i'm sure theres something more witty than that.


gimme a holla! -danno
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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brenbaus

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
hey guys whats up. god i havent posted in forever. good thing i still keep in touch with a few of you on aim.

anyways...homecoming. never, ever asked a girl out to a dance before. (private ****ing schools til now...no dances) so how do u guys usually line it? basically i was thinking of just getting a conversation towards homecoming and asking if she had a date yet etc etc so uh you wanna go?

but i'm sure theres something more witty than that.


gimme a holla! -danno
Basically you have the right idea, talk about the dance and ask her if she has a date and would she like to go with you (if she dosent have a date)
 

i am me

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I would go up to the girl and ask if you could talk to her privately for a minute. Then, just ask her if she's going to the dance and if she wants to go with you...that's pretty much the best way. It's direct
 

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TELL her, "Your going to the homecoming dance with me, or if you don't think you can handle the fun/handle yourself being in the presence of a hot guy"

If she declines, tease her about how she can't handle the fun or she can't handle herself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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strams4ever

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hey danno, havent seen you on aol in a while. This year for homecoming they are doing a ****y remote location where there can only be 300-350 people.... so there are about 5 or 6 "anti homecoming" parties going on. I'm going to those.

Personaly I think all the dressing up and being all formal is OVERRATED! I'm not putting a tuxedo on till somebody dies.
 
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