"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Beef

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Hey guys. I got a small problem and Im not to sure how to go about it so Im asking you guys. I was arguing with some kid on my bus and hes basically a loser,anyway he said people talk **** behind my back. He told me a few names, only 1 I recognized as being popular. Anyway they say stuf like Im a p*ssy or im a follower stuff like that. I dont know who any of them are. So I was wondering what I should do about it? I was just going to quit worryingand if they wanted to do something about it they would come say it to me instead of behind my back like p*ssys. Do people just hate like this all the time?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Be more concerned that you are letting a looser push your buttons. Even if people are talking behind your back, they are still afraid to say anything to your face. Your looser friend recognizes this and is hoping that you will react to it and alienate yourself from the others by doing something stupid.
 

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Originally posted by Biphoria
Are you so insecure that you are thinking about this?
I agree. So what if someone called you a ************. Nobody cares and neither should you. If you take offence everytime someone calls you a bad name your never going to make it through life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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