"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bedding a 30 year old feminist

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And by feminist I mean she's educated in gender studies. I was just on this dating site looking for girls to meet, I had no idea she was a feminist before she told me (after I explained why I wasn't a feminist when she asked me to). I'm going to be seeing her in approximately a week.

How would you go about it? so I can compare it to my own "plan".
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_studies

Do some reading. The point is not to suck up to her, the point is to be able to have an intelligent conversation about something she cares about. You don't have to agree with her about everything, just disagree in an intelligent and academic way if you do. Don't be p!ssed off and don't be political.
 

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@Tits, lol that guy is a sell-out

@Bible_Belt, Pretty much what I thought too

@Pair, LOL... conversations like that just reinforce my notion of feminism ultimately being a meta-level sh!t test
 

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AttackFormation said:
And by feminist I mean she's educated in gender studies. I was just on this dating site looking for girls to meet, I had no idea she was a feminist before she told me (after I explained why I wasn't a feminist when she asked me to). I'm going to be seeing her in approximately a week.

How would you go about it? so I can compare it to my own "plan".
your a piece of garbage
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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noheart said:
your a piece of garbage
All right guys who's trolling this time?
 

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Considering the age and the cultural backround I wouldnt take her seriouly, could be anything even one of her "battle to educate guys" by letting you think you're getting ur d1ck wet and instead just be lectured about what "equality" is and how you should not consider women as tools.

In fact all she cares is get a ego boost by wasting your time and not put out after you wasted time on her.

Hoepfully thats not the case but at that age, in western world and with that cultural backround that wouldnt surprise me.

If I was you I wouldnt expose myself that much, general anti-flake tactics and no expectations, think about discount days when you give a look but take almost for granted that your shirt size is over.
 

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AttackFormation: You are an idiot to go out with this woman. First of all lets get age out of the way, I'm 35 and my wife whom I've been married to for 4 years is still only 26... by that logic you should be dating 16 to 18 yearolds. I've never dated over 24 years old. The dating age range between an older man and a younger woman is the mark of a successful man and the inverse, a mark of an extremely unsuccessful one.

Secondly, a feminazi is agreeing to go out with you because she can't get anything else, older women prefer much older men, she is a feminist at heart so she will likely accuse you of rape or some other hate crime if you choose to pump and dump, older men know this. Finally she is 30 and her bio clock is in overdrive.... so you are a candidate for baby daddy.

If you don't know by now, there is something seriously wrong with her. If you continue down this path, I would present you with an SS idiot of the year award.
 

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AttackFormation said:
after I explained why I wasn't a feminist when she asked me to

How would you go about it?
This is what you should do :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just to clarify I'm not "dating" this woman...
 

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Feminazis are the worst type of women you can ever date. Once a woman mentions to me that she is a feminazi, I eject.
 

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^ Seconded. Why are you even doing her a favour by bedding her? Go find other chicks.
 
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