Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bedding a 30 year old feminist

AttackFormation

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And by feminist I mean she's educated in gender studies. I was just on this dating site looking for girls to meet, I had no idea she was a feminist before she told me (after I explained why I wasn't a feminist when she asked me to). I'm going to be seeing her in approximately a week.

How would you go about it? so I can compare it to my own "plan".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_studies

Do some reading. The point is not to suck up to her, the point is to be able to have an intelligent conversation about something she cares about. You don't have to agree with her about everything, just disagree in an intelligent and academic way if you do. Don't be p!ssed off and don't be political.
 

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@Tits, lol that guy is a sell-out

@Bible_Belt, Pretty much what I thought too

@Pair, LOL... conversations like that just reinforce my notion of feminism ultimately being a meta-level sh!t test
 

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AttackFormation said:
And by feminist I mean she's educated in gender studies. I was just on this dating site looking for girls to meet, I had no idea she was a feminist before she told me (after I explained why I wasn't a feminist when she asked me to). I'm going to be seeing her in approximately a week.

How would you go about it? so I can compare it to my own "plan".
your a piece of garbage
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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noheart said:
your a piece of garbage
All right guys who's trolling this time?
 

Who Dares Win

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Considering the age and the cultural backround I wouldnt take her seriouly, could be anything even one of her "battle to educate guys" by letting you think you're getting ur d1ck wet and instead just be lectured about what "equality" is and how you should not consider women as tools.

In fact all she cares is get a ego boost by wasting your time and not put out after you wasted time on her.

Hoepfully thats not the case but at that age, in western world and with that cultural backround that wouldnt surprise me.

If I was you I wouldnt expose myself that much, general anti-flake tactics and no expectations, think about discount days when you give a look but take almost for granted that your shirt size is over.
 

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AttackFormation: You are an idiot to go out with this woman. First of all lets get age out of the way, I'm 35 and my wife whom I've been married to for 4 years is still only 26... by that logic you should be dating 16 to 18 yearolds. I've never dated over 24 years old. The dating age range between an older man and a younger woman is the mark of a successful man and the inverse, a mark of an extremely unsuccessful one.

Secondly, a feminazi is agreeing to go out with you because she can't get anything else, older women prefer much older men, she is a feminist at heart so she will likely accuse you of rape or some other hate crime if you choose to pump and dump, older men know this. Finally she is 30 and her bio clock is in overdrive.... so you are a candidate for baby daddy.

If you don't know by now, there is something seriously wrong with her. If you continue down this path, I would present you with an SS idiot of the year award.
 

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AttackFormation said:
after I explained why I wasn't a feminist when she asked me to

How would you go about it?
This is what you should do :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just to clarify I'm not "dating" this woman...
 

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Feminazis are the worst type of women you can ever date. Once a woman mentions to me that she is a feminazi, I eject.
 

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^ Seconded. Why are you even doing her a favour by bedding her? Go find other chicks.
 
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