"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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** Becoming Chizzled **

Skilla_Staz

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Seems correct in theory, I've never done it though. Try doing high intesity cardio though, like sprints and agility work. This way you'll minimize any muscle loss and maximize the fat loss.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bud_2005

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Sometimes I wish I never found this forum. There are so many conflicting theories. Diesel says that gaining mass is the easy part, which Warboss Alex disagrees with. Throttle says take in all the protein you can get your eyes on, while Zero says too much protein hurts your gains. What is considered too much protein anyways. I almost think you are better off not knowing some of this stuff because it becomes too complicated and confusing. Becoming healthy should be a fun journey, not a chore. Because of this site I second guess my self everytime I workout I'm afraid of burning up my muscle, or becoming too big, etc. etc.
 

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It's not "because of this site" bud, it's because of you!

It's your inability to take a piece of advice that makes sense to you, and TRY IT OUT. Don't look for the right path before you start, you'll never find it. Everyone's different and responds to different methods, so your only way to get the results you want is to do trial and error, not sit on the sidelines looking for the holy grail.
 
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