"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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English_Bloke

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The title explains it all, Im realizing im doing everything opposite
to a DJ. A couple months ago I was amazing with my reputation and girls, same thing happened last year - but ive become lazy and just slipped.

I want to change, I dont know where to start. I now have a neautral reputation amongst everyone one...girls think the whole english guy thing is cute and I get enough kino off them but no more than that - even when I try back.

What made me realise all this was at a party last night, I had worked on a girl all day and had become possesive so at the party I tried to spread round a little more, and it worked somewhat. But at the end I gave this guy a ride home..I walk in and find him making out with this girl I had walked on all day...! damnit!

I need advice on how to start again, I dont have a fresh start but at least everything is neutral for me with girls, guys and grades etc. I need to get back up but by being obsesive over this one girl I have closed a lot of friendships.

I will try hard to get back up, I just need some advice on where to go from on monday.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WesCottII

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Right i'll start with the basics

Grade : most important. Read notes evry night after school. Second, do assignments the night it's set.

Girls : Something is obviously wrong if you can't pull a girl you spent all day on. Break it down into basics. Smile, approach, EC, be funny, kino, leave.

S'all i can be bothered to think about now.

Incedently, where are you located? I take it your an english guy living somewhere else? (just wondering, im english)
 
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English_Bloke

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Thanks for the advice. Yeah with the girl I can see what I did wrong...just was too slow and not enough kino...made it more of the friendship route.

Yeah and I moved out to DC, USA like a couple months ago.
 
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Yo I'm at Fairfax County, VA, 30 min from DC. Thought me and (can't say) were the only ones in the area.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ThaDJ

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Im from Loudoun, va... leesburg to be exact like 45 min away from dc
 
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