"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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English_Bloke

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The title explains it all, Im realizing im doing everything opposite
to a DJ. A couple months ago I was amazing with my reputation and girls, same thing happened last year - but ive become lazy and just slipped.

I want to change, I dont know where to start. I now have a neautral reputation amongst everyone one...girls think the whole english guy thing is cute and I get enough kino off them but no more than that - even when I try back.

What made me realise all this was at a party last night, I had worked on a girl all day and had become possesive so at the party I tried to spread round a little more, and it worked somewhat. But at the end I gave this guy a ride home..I walk in and find him making out with this girl I had walked on all day...! damnit!

I need advice on how to start again, I dont have a fresh start but at least everything is neutral for me with girls, guys and grades etc. I need to get back up but by being obsesive over this one girl I have closed a lot of friendships.

I will try hard to get back up, I just need some advice on where to go from on monday.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Right i'll start with the basics

Grade : most important. Read notes evry night after school. Second, do assignments the night it's set.

Girls : Something is obviously wrong if you can't pull a girl you spent all day on. Break it down into basics. Smile, approach, EC, be funny, kino, leave.

S'all i can be bothered to think about now.

Incedently, where are you located? I take it your an english guy living somewhere else? (just wondering, im english)
 
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Thanks for the advice. Yeah with the girl I can see what I did wrong...just was too slow and not enough kino...made it more of the friendship route.

Yeah and I moved out to DC, USA like a couple months ago.
 
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Yo I'm at Fairfax County, VA, 30 min from DC. Thought me and (can't say) were the only ones in the area.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Im from Loudoun, va... leesburg to be exact like 45 min away from dc
 
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