"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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becoming a pu*sy magnet: how much possible is it ?

ananas

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Hi everyone,

2 months ago I posted a topic "List of attractive points you can work on"
my goal was to list the most attractive traits men can have to attract women.
once these traits listed correctly, my goal would be to develop strongly as much as possible these traits, in the hope that I wouldn't have to make much effort in order to get girls.

For the moment I'm thinking about maxxing my physique (work out, steroids) and my money (starting to show-off a little more)

Do you think it is possible to become a "pu*sy magnet"? Have you knew any? Personal experience?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Plinco

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Hi everyone,

2 months ago I posted a topic "List of attractive points you can work on"
my goal was to list the most attractive traits men can have to attract women.
once these traits listed correctly, my goal would be to develop strongly as much as possible these traits, in the hope that I wouldn't have to make much effort in order to get girls.

For the moment I'm thinking about maxxing my physique (work out, steroids) and my money (starting to show-off a little more)

Do you think it is possible to become a "pu*sy magnet"? Have you knew any? Personal experience?
You can have the so called best theories out there, but experience trumps anything written or talked about. The best way to know for sure is to get yourself out there and find out.
 

hardboiled85

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Hi everyone,

2 months ago I posted a topic "List of attractive points you can work on"
my goal was to list the most attractive traits men can have to attract women.
once these traits listed correctly, my goal would be to develop strongly as much as possible these traits, in the hope that I wouldn't have to make much effort in order to get girls.

For the moment I'm thinking about maxxing my physique (work out, steroids) and my money (starting to show-off a little more)

Do you think it is possible to become a "pu*sy magnet"? Have you knew any? Personal experience?
Become a Hollywood/Sports celeb - there, you're a p magnet now. Any other attempt will likely fail.
 

Kotaix

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You can have the so called best theories out there, but experience trumps anything written or talked about. The best way to know for sure is to get yourself out there and find out.
This.

Almost everyone who is actually successful has failed their way there. To be able to do something effortlessly, you first have to put in a LOT of effort practicing. There are no shortcuts in life.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hamurabimbi

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Hi everyone,

2 months ago I posted a topic "List of attractive points you can work on"
my goal was to list the most attractive traits men can have to attract women.
once these traits listed correctly, my goal would be to develop strongly as much as possible these traits, in the hope that I wouldn't have to make much effort in order to get girls.

For the moment I'm thinking about maxxing my physique (work out, steroids) and my money (starting to show-off a little more)

Do you think it is possible to become a "pu*sy magnet"? Have you knew any? Personal experience?
To be a “pu’sy magnet’, the girl must think of you sexually. And that is not something that can be achieved without physical attractiveness* This is not so say that accomplished, personable, successful, ‘together ‘ men can’t attract women. They can, and do. However, to have a woman, literally beg you for sex, to ask you to send her dvck pics so she can finger herself, to O consistently when you pound her, you need to physically turn her on by your appearance. I truly believe that without the physical attraction (and I’m talking 80% face), you can’t be a PM. You can have a woman and a happy life. Men who struggle with women need to put aside the dream of being a Slayer. Only a very small number of men get that. Find your looksmatch and be with her.

* there are a subset of people who are ‘sexy’ but not good looking. That would be a whole separate thread.
 

zekko

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I’ve found men admire & respect guys that do well with women. As long as you’re not poaching.
Depends on how they go about it. I respect some men who do well with women, and have little respect for others.

The difference for me is probably this:
If a guy has things going for them outside of women, I will tend to respect them. If they have nothing much in their lives outside of getting laid, I'm not going to respect them much.
 

BadBoy89

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Do you think it is possible to become a "pu*sy magnet"? Have you knew any? Personal experience?
Get tall, and make sure you have a thick set of hair that can be slicked back or is full and complete.

Basically those are the only 2 things that really matter to young hot fertile women, anything else is icing.
 

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If we could all agree on the definition of pvssy magnet as "a male whom almost all female around (at least in his circle) are irresistibly attracted to sexually and mentally", then I think he must have at least one aspect that he is extremely more superior to his peers, from looks to money to social status and so on.

For example, I have a younger friend who is a personal trainer and thus has a very good looking body, I'm talking the kind of bodies belonged to be on the cover of Men's Health or something - so even though the dude might not be able to join an interesting conversation about philosophy, but thanks to his ripped-as-fvck body, girls (the kinds that are drawn to ripped-as-fvck dudes) are drawn to him like magnets.

In the mean time, for the rest of us, we need to constantly try and upgrade ourselves on a daily basis based on what we have, and never forget this whole "upgrading ourselves" is never about pvssies (even though if we do everything right, it's a side-effect) or anyone or anything else but OURSELVES.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It’s better to just think in terms of small incremental upgrades adding up rather then going from “zero to hero.”

Honestly, even gaining ONE solid looks point is substantial.

4 to 5. Shrek to low tier normie

5 to 6. Low tier normie to upper tier normie

6 to 7. Upper tier normie to Chadlite
 
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