Becoming a father

[dietzcoi]

I am glad Bonex wants to support his child, but his situation definitely is not one for congratulations and props!

What is wrong with you people? He has now fukked up his life.. this is not a reason to celebrate! No matter what happens he now has life long problems and financial obligations and will certainly not have a good relationship with the mother. What will happen when she decides to marry some other chump who wants to adopt the kid and make it a nice family??

THIS WILL NOT HAVE A GOOD ENDING!

Bonez, keep doing the right thing but don't brag about your situation!

I am glad Westcoaster and a few others are still here giving the "voice of reason" as opposed to the wonderful congratulations from the "voice of Oprah" crowd.

Jeezzz.................................

Dietzcoi

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...What is wrong with you people? He has now fukked up his life.. this is not a reason to celebrate! No matter what happens he now has life long problems and financial obligations and will certainly not have a good relationship with the mother. What will happen when she decides to marry some other chump who wants to adopt the kid and make it a nice family??

I'm all for being realistic but some of you guys talk as if guys have no ability to have any influence on the interactions within their lives. It sounds extremely defeatist.