"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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donArjun

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some girls I feel that we 'sync' and some girls I don't feel that we've 'sync' well during 1st convo-- the second group of girls i'll just pass ..

however, my question -- there is probably a way to sync with her -- change your voice, stance to hers, use the same expressions , even echo her values ( stuff they probably teach you on the fastseduction.com site etc.)

The question however, is do you become this "highly-adaptable" person just so you can get into her pants ?

The way I see it, Success is Success , doesn't matter how you did it. You did it is what matters...

anyone agree, disagree ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quiksilver

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I'd recommend going to your local prison and talking to some of the more permanent inmates... I'm sure they'll tell you the best way to rape a girl.
 

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It comes with the territory.

You'll soon learn to naturally adapt as you run into different kinds of women.

Then again, you'll learn that sometimes adapting to some women is really just dipping down below your standards. In other words, you'll learn to send certain women to the back of the line, also.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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