"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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donArjun

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some girls I feel that we 'sync' and some girls I don't feel that we've 'sync' well during 1st convo-- the second group of girls i'll just pass ..

however, my question -- there is probably a way to sync with her -- change your voice, stance to hers, use the same expressions , even echo her values ( stuff they probably teach you on the fastseduction.com site etc.)

The question however, is do you become this "highly-adaptable" person just so you can get into her pants ?

The way I see it, Success is Success , doesn't matter how you did it. You did it is what matters...

anyone agree, disagree ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'd recommend going to your local prison and talking to some of the more permanent inmates... I'm sure they'll tell you the best way to rape a girl.
 

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It comes with the territory.

You'll soon learn to naturally adapt as you run into different kinds of women.

Then again, you'll learn that sometimes adapting to some women is really just dipping down below your standards. In other words, you'll learn to send certain women to the back of the line, also.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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