"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Beard or no beard?

magickarl

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I've heard a lot of mixed responses from both the ladies and other dudes on what they think about beards.

Some women say it makes the man look scraggly

Some women say it makes the man look rugged and sexy

Some women say it really depends on the guy, and that some men can pull it off, and others just can't.

I say my beard looks bad ass. I try to keep it well trimmed, which is what most girls say is the most important thing about beards to them.

I know that it all comes down to what I want, and since I like my beard, I'm not going to shave it off for any woman until I decide its time to go on my own. But I was just wondering what the guys here thought about bearding it up in this day and age.

Pictures of my beard

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...iewPicture&friendID=268714595&albumId=1094503
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pakwah

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its all in the ladies preference. i was clean shaven for sooo long, finally let it grow, thought it looked stupid but everyone else was tellin me otherwise.
 

fourblueballs

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As long as it looks clean, your all set.

Try shaping it.... play with it a bit. See how it turns out.

Go check out.. a professional stylist. Let them get there take at it... and do something up for you.

I use to rock a nice chin strap back in the day.. then I joined the Fire Dept. and had to shave it off. Bastards! lol

Anyways to recap. As long as it looks clean.. and well maintained.. you can rock w/e you want! :)
 

magickarl

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Well I guess what I'm asking in particular is if my beard is good to go. I think I have it shaped pretty well.
 

DJDamage

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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tsmith2334

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magickarl said:
Well I guess what I'm asking in particular is if my beard is good to go. I think I have it shaped pretty well.
I have a beard like that. Yours looks good by the way.

I think it does truly depend on preference. Just like some guys are attracted to blondes, brunettes, etc.

I'll say this much though, if you're a college student and you want to attract younger girls a beard often helps. If you can grow a decent, nicely trimmed beard, certain girls will be all over it. Some even get drunk and start touching mine, no lie. :rockon:

Plus, there are all different variations. I don't really like chin straps or thick beards, I like the stubble look running along the jaw line and about halfway up to my cheeks.
 
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