"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Beard or no beard?

magickarl

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I've heard a lot of mixed responses from both the ladies and other dudes on what they think about beards.

Some women say it makes the man look scraggly

Some women say it makes the man look rugged and sexy

Some women say it really depends on the guy, and that some men can pull it off, and others just can't.

I say my beard looks bad ass. I try to keep it well trimmed, which is what most girls say is the most important thing about beards to them.

I know that it all comes down to what I want, and since I like my beard, I'm not going to shave it off for any woman until I decide its time to go on my own. But I was just wondering what the guys here thought about bearding it up in this day and age.

Pictures of my beard

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...iewPicture&friendID=268714595&albumId=1094503
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pakwah

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its all in the ladies preference. i was clean shaven for sooo long, finally let it grow, thought it looked stupid but everyone else was tellin me otherwise.
 

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As long as it looks clean, your all set.

Try shaping it.... play with it a bit. See how it turns out.

Go check out.. a professional stylist. Let them get there take at it... and do something up for you.

I use to rock a nice chin strap back in the day.. then I joined the Fire Dept. and had to shave it off. Bastards! lol

Anyways to recap. As long as it looks clean.. and well maintained.. you can rock w/e you want! :)
 

magickarl

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Well I guess what I'm asking in particular is if my beard is good to go. I think I have it shaped pretty well.
 

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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tsmith2334

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magickarl said:
Well I guess what I'm asking in particular is if my beard is good to go. I think I have it shaped pretty well.
I have a beard like that. Yours looks good by the way.

I think it does truly depend on preference. Just like some guys are attracted to blondes, brunettes, etc.

I'll say this much though, if you're a college student and you want to attract younger girls a beard often helps. If you can grow a decent, nicely trimmed beard, certain girls will be all over it. Some even get drunk and start touching mine, no lie. :rockon:

Plus, there are all different variations. I don't really like chin straps or thick beards, I like the stubble look running along the jaw line and about halfway up to my cheeks.
 
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