"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Beachtime fun: how do I make her into a pivot?

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I'm going to my beach house this weekend with one of my good female friends (no, nothing will happen, nor do I want anything to happen, so please don't suggest it) and my parents. My parents will leave us alone completely and have said we could stay out as late as we want.

Alright, so my question is this: my friend could be considered attractive - how do I use her as a pivot? Just a few harmless, platonic ways I could make other girls interested because I'm with my friend.
 

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Not many tips on pivots, but remember that if you go to mack on some other chick, if your friend is there she will probably end up ****blocking you, not to be a *****, but just because she doesn't realize she's doing it. At the best she'll be a third wheel. You need to make sure that she has somebody else to hang out with, or you're ****ed. Just my little bit of input.
 
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No, she's cool. Trust me, I could say "Emma, I'm going to hit on that girl," and her response would be "good, I'll distract the guy."
 
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I need one of those!!!:p
 
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