"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Beachtime fun: how do I make her into a pivot?

Porky

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I'm going to my beach house this weekend with one of my good female friends (no, nothing will happen, nor do I want anything to happen, so please don't suggest it) and my parents. My parents will leave us alone completely and have said we could stay out as late as we want.

Alright, so my question is this: my friend could be considered attractive - how do I use her as a pivot? Just a few harmless, platonic ways I could make other girls interested because I'm with my friend.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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UltimateScoundrel

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Not many tips on pivots, but remember that if you go to mack on some other chick, if your friend is there she will probably end up ****blocking you, not to be a *****, but just because she doesn't realize she's doing it. At the best she'll be a third wheel. You need to make sure that she has somebody else to hang out with, or you're ****ed. Just my little bit of input.
 

Porky

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No, she's cool. Trust me, I could say "Emma, I'm going to hit on that girl," and her response would be "good, I'll distract the guy."
 

InsidiousNstinct

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I need one of those!!!:p
 
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