disciple
Senior Don Juan
The relationship between you and a woman should be a boss to employee type. In every business or company, someone has to take on the responsibilities of leadership. If there are only two people (as in you and your woman) you can't have two leaders or two followers. Somebody has to take the lead. In a relationship between a man and a woman, the natural order of things is for the man to lead and the woman to follow. Women are naturally programmed to submit in the presence of a strong, dominant male.
As for being the boss with your woman (or women), imagine you were the head of a company and you were interviewing people for five new positions. Let's say that you decided to interview 200 people for those 5 jobs. That means that after you are finished, you have to reject 195 people. Wouldn't you be very picky about who you decided to give a job to? Also, because there is large pool of applicants with varying degrees of education and work experience, you can really pick who you think would be the best fit for you and your company.
You have to treat a woman like she is a person interviewing for a job in your company (or stable in pimp terms). The most important thing to remember is that you have to let the woman choose your company (choose to be your chick). Most guys see a woman and choose her based on looks or something and the female hasn't even chosen them and that is why most guys get rejected when they approach females. Player_Supreme has a good post on this topic in the Mature Section called Observation.
Choosing a female first when she hasn't chosen you will only lead to getting rejected, hurt, frustrated, etc. If you want to know how to make yourself as inviting and attractive as you can in order for a woman to want to choose to come join your company (stable), then take advantage of all the good tips and posts on this site about how to attract women instead chasing them like a fool.
Now, as I have stated it is all important that SHE CHOOSES YOU FIRST. Then you have the OPTION of whether you choose her or
not. Here's a perfect example of what I'm talking about. Have you ever been a situation where some chick was attracted to you but the feeling definitely was not mutual? Maybe she was overweight or unattractive or annoying or all of the above. Now, she chose you but you never chose her. I know this kind of sounds like common sense but the fact is that most guys commonly make this very mistake because most guys automatically choose a chick upon first sight of her based on looks. This is a bad thing to do because you never looked to see whether SHE CHOSE YOU FIRST. Now your the pursuer, she's the pursued. Your the chaser, she's the one being chased. Women are extremely good at detecting what a man is thinking and if you choose her first just because you see her and she's cute with a nice body, SHE WILL pick up on that and read it in your eyes and body language. She will then automatically place you in the huge group of about 90% of the men she encounters who all chose her first without her choosing them. She really wants a guy that SHE wants to chase and pursue. You both can't chase each other, you'll be like two dogs chasing each other around in a circle. I think I've said enough on this subject for someone to think about so I'm out.
As for being the boss with your woman (or women), imagine you were the head of a company and you were interviewing people for five new positions. Let's say that you decided to interview 200 people for those 5 jobs. That means that after you are finished, you have to reject 195 people. Wouldn't you be very picky about who you decided to give a job to? Also, because there is large pool of applicants with varying degrees of education and work experience, you can really pick who you think would be the best fit for you and your company.
You have to treat a woman like she is a person interviewing for a job in your company (or stable in pimp terms). The most important thing to remember is that you have to let the woman choose your company (choose to be your chick). Most guys see a woman and choose her based on looks or something and the female hasn't even chosen them and that is why most guys get rejected when they approach females. Player_Supreme has a good post on this topic in the Mature Section called Observation.
Choosing a female first when she hasn't chosen you will only lead to getting rejected, hurt, frustrated, etc. If you want to know how to make yourself as inviting and attractive as you can in order for a woman to want to choose to come join your company (stable), then take advantage of all the good tips and posts on this site about how to attract women instead chasing them like a fool.
Now, as I have stated it is all important that SHE CHOOSES YOU FIRST. Then you have the OPTION of whether you choose her or
not. Here's a perfect example of what I'm talking about. Have you ever been a situation where some chick was attracted to you but the feeling definitely was not mutual? Maybe she was overweight or unattractive or annoying or all of the above. Now, she chose you but you never chose her. I know this kind of sounds like common sense but the fact is that most guys commonly make this very mistake because most guys automatically choose a chick upon first sight of her based on looks. This is a bad thing to do because you never looked to see whether SHE CHOSE YOU FIRST. Now your the pursuer, she's the pursued. Your the chaser, she's the one being chased. Women are extremely good at detecting what a man is thinking and if you choose her first just because you see her and she's cute with a nice body, SHE WILL pick up on that and read it in your eyes and body language. She will then automatically place you in the huge group of about 90% of the men she encounters who all chose her first without her choosing them. She really wants a guy that SHE wants to chase and pursue. You both can't chase each other, you'll be like two dogs chasing each other around in a circle. I think I've said enough on this subject for someone to think about so I'm out.
