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Don Juan
I just came back from a weekend where I had a girl who was ready, willing and especially eager to do whatever I wanted whenever I wanted it. This same time last year I was the biggest loser I or any of my friends had ever known.
I owe everything about who I am today to the manly men of sosuave.com. Without you I would be spanking it to net porn instead of having the best year of my life. So to all of you who say that you’ve been here for awhile and are still nowhere I tell you this:
1. LEARN!- Read up. The bible and the posts here are gold but they are only philosophy they are not instructions. Nowhere does it say "do exactly this and you will get laid". You need to incorporate their concepts into your personality and everyday life.
2. SEEK!- Find a DJ who you can confide in and who's opinion you trust. This is especially important in the early stages. Someone standing over your shoulder is the easiest way to get you off your ass. When I was too afraid to even get the digits and I thought Id fail I kept saying. "How will I explain to him that I’m a failure" It worked.
3.DO!- You know how many regrets I have about not acting when I should have? Since I’ve found this site the answer is ZERO. I have taken every opportunity given to me however small and remote. I did not always succeed but at least I can go to sleep each night knowing that I did my absolute best.
4. ACT!- Never be afraid to take action. This is the hardest lesson of all for me to figure out. I went from sitting on the sidelines to being an active participant in my own life. You should take (calculated) risks and be bold always. Never let fear or peer pressure force you to submit to the path of least action. I am a prominent man in a small senior class. I live knowing that everything I do will become public record by the next day. To the point that if I drink too much at a party my teachers laugh about it in class the next day. Do I hide in the corner fearing what others will think of what I’ve done. NO! Embrace this, be proud of the fact that for better or worse you've done something worth talking about.
5. LOOK!- The best moments of my life happened by pure accident and circumstance. Always be ready and able to do anything. Never leave home without your A game. Before you ever leave you home prepare physically and mentally as if you were leaving to have sex. This will ensure that you are always at your best because one day it will be true and you will be glad you are ready.
Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go. Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.
Joshua 1: 7-9
I owe everything about who I am today to the manly men of sosuave.com. Without you I would be spanking it to net porn instead of having the best year of my life. So to all of you who say that you’ve been here for awhile and are still nowhere I tell you this:
1. LEARN!- Read up. The bible and the posts here are gold but they are only philosophy they are not instructions. Nowhere does it say "do exactly this and you will get laid". You need to incorporate their concepts into your personality and everyday life.
2. SEEK!- Find a DJ who you can confide in and who's opinion you trust. This is especially important in the early stages. Someone standing over your shoulder is the easiest way to get you off your ass. When I was too afraid to even get the digits and I thought Id fail I kept saying. "How will I explain to him that I’m a failure" It worked.
3.DO!- You know how many regrets I have about not acting when I should have? Since I’ve found this site the answer is ZERO. I have taken every opportunity given to me however small and remote. I did not always succeed but at least I can go to sleep each night knowing that I did my absolute best.
4. ACT!- Never be afraid to take action. This is the hardest lesson of all for me to figure out. I went from sitting on the sidelines to being an active participant in my own life. You should take (calculated) risks and be bold always. Never let fear or peer pressure force you to submit to the path of least action. I am a prominent man in a small senior class. I live knowing that everything I do will become public record by the next day. To the point that if I drink too much at a party my teachers laugh about it in class the next day. Do I hide in the corner fearing what others will think of what I’ve done. NO! Embrace this, be proud of the fact that for better or worse you've done something worth talking about.
5. LOOK!- The best moments of my life happened by pure accident and circumstance. Always be ready and able to do anything. Never leave home without your A game. Before you ever leave you home prepare physically and mentally as if you were leaving to have sex. This will ensure that you are always at your best because one day it will be true and you will be glad you are ready.
Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go. Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.
Joshua 1: 7-9
