"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Be Like Phil Mickelson

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You know, the golfer...

Ever watch him out on the course? He is amazingly popular and I tried to figure out why. I finally realized it was his smile. He's Always got this weird little half smile that shows some of his teeth. Its very endearing.

Well I have been smiling like Phil the last few days and I can tell you the chicks notice and they smile back. I just walk around the city trying to be like Phil is after he hits a good shot. And it works.

I have to catch myself because my usual demeanor borders on kind of a scowl; and that doesn't work. My Phil smile works! Try it. I bet it will work for you too!
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Phil smiles like that because he lacks the composure to keep his smugness under wraps. It just screams "I think I'm better than you and I want you to know it". As a golf fan, I just hate watching that guy.

That aside, good on ya for recognizing a potential image lifter and putting it to practice. :up:
 
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