"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Be Like Phil Mickelson

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You know, the golfer...

Ever watch him out on the course? He is amazingly popular and I tried to figure out why. I finally realized it was his smile. He's Always got this weird little half smile that shows some of his teeth. Its very endearing.

Well I have been smiling like Phil the last few days and I can tell you the chicks notice and they smile back. I just walk around the city trying to be like Phil is after he hits a good shot. And it works.

I have to catch myself because my usual demeanor borders on kind of a scowl; and that doesn't work. My Phil smile works! Try it. I bet it will work for you too!
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phil smiles like that because he lacks the composure to keep his smugness under wraps. It just screams "I think I'm better than you and I want you to know it". As a golf fan, I just hate watching that guy.

That aside, good on ya for recognizing a potential image lifter and putting it to practice. :up:
 
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