"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Be Like Phil Mickelson

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You know, the golfer...

Ever watch him out on the course? He is amazingly popular and I tried to figure out why. I finally realized it was his smile. He's Always got this weird little half smile that shows some of his teeth. Its very endearing.

Well I have been smiling like Phil the last few days and I can tell you the chicks notice and they smile back. I just walk around the city trying to be like Phil is after he hits a good shot. And it works.

I have to catch myself because my usual demeanor borders on kind of a scowl; and that doesn't work. My Phil smile works! Try it. I bet it will work for you too!
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Phil smiles like that because he lacks the composure to keep his smugness under wraps. It just screams "I think I'm better than you and I want you to know it". As a golf fan, I just hate watching that guy.

That aside, good on ya for recognizing a potential image lifter and putting it to practice. :up:
 
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